Thanks Dorpersheep,
We did plant a Candle Nut tree over his grave, which is fenced off from the sheep. I got the news one Sunday afternoon that he wasn't going to improve, and so me being me, I had to get it over and done with then and there. (I don't think I could have got through the night knowing what I had to do the next day). Consequently, I didn't really think that much as to the location of his grave, which is in the front paddock that I drive past every single day. It was difficult at first, because I would start out every northbound trip into town crying! However, it has probably helped me be able to think about him and smile rather than sob.
I suppose I do hope that people who own horses become more aware of it pythium and that it really is life or death.
I did read that you lost you yearling in the "Finally" post, and that you had lost another horse as well. I don't think it makes much difference how long you've had an animal, it just matters how much you had bonded with them.
So, anyway, down to two old horses now, my Gypsy, is thirty years old, and I've had her since she was rising 2. She's still in excellent health, good enough teeth and iron hooves, so my vet thinks she'll go another few years yet! She's lived a good life, and really, when it comes time for her to go, or for me to have to make that decision, I know not many horses have had it so good for so long. The other horse, Cobber, was given to my husband to learn to ride on, a great big thoroughbred. I haven't ridden him for a long time, a bit like riding a giraffe!
Thankyou for your kind words,
Bye for now,
H.